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Josh Rollins Writes

A pseudonym at a coffee shop near you. Hunched over his keyboard like an antisocial porcupine, judging you quietly while sipping his coffee, mumbling under his breath.

Anonymous said: Why do you think so many woman are so shy about receiving oral sex? How do you handle that in the moment?

writingdirty:

There are a variety of reasons, I’m sure. Society telling women that their vulvas are bad/dirty/off limits/&c. Shame, self consciousness, body image, what have you.

I’m sure there are better people to ask than me. Most women I’ve been with like to receive oral sex. Which is convinent for me.

I had experience with girls who are very sensitive about oral, and I agree with what writingdirty said: it’s a lot about what they are led to believe. Often it’s more than just oral sex; in the case of partners who were shy or worried about oral sex, there were also usually issues of “alternative” forms of sex, such as anal sex or talking dirty (on their end) or just communicating what they want out of sex in general. 

I can’t speak for them but it takes time until they realize it’s “OK” to ask for one thing or another, which they wanted for a long time. 

10 months ago
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